Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

She · Post edited by LabiaLover at 2012-04-25 20:50:49

I want to know if I am.

lovelyj

Agreed. Me too. :)

tempest_driver

If it's real I am. And I'm not the least bit interested in rehab.

himu

who needs rehab :-/
BTW, have you guys seen the movie Shame (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1723811/)? if yes, how did you like it?

Agatha

@himu - yes love Carey Mulligan

Regarding the question, the jury seems to be out on this one. I have been accused of being a sex addict, usually by people who do not understand or wish to judge my lifestyle choices. I have a lot of sex but I certainly don't think I am an addict. Having a lot of sex is great and a positive thing, having an addiction is not. I know someone who works with sex addicts - it's really similar to any sort of addiction and people that have it can't function at all without getting their fix. They struggle with their work and maintaining relationships with family and friends. They take dangerous choices with their safety and sexual health. Of the 15 my friend looks after, many have HIV and all have hep. So like any addiction it's a very negative place to be. Although I think it's pretty rare. Having a high sex drive is great and should be celebrated.

himu

@Agatha,
Very well said... I agree with you on this 101%
Having addiction is a negative thing where as having sex is not. I don't think any of us are in anyway near the stage where we can't function without getting any.

mrmarquis

Agatha,

You're absolutely on the money here, as usual. Addiction is one thing, putting yourself in danger, and being unable to do the necessary things to sustain life for yourself and your family. An extremely high sex drive, achieving a high level of appreciation for your own body, and being able to put it to it's highest and best use on a very frequent basis is quite another. Self love, rather than self destruction. To me, it sort of gets back to some of the things I suggest to women, such as going without panties at every single opportunity. That feeling of freedom, and deep appreciation for your body, the feeling of deep sexuality, is a good thing, and very healthy. Fucking strangers in a filthy alley without protection is not. Exercise your sexuality, and enjoy it to the fullest. None of you have indicated in any way that you have the kinds of problems exhibited by an addict.

tempest_driver

And suddenly a subject that's very easy to make fun of isn't so funny anymore, thanks for that @agatha.

I say that knowing that a comment like that may be a bit confusing coming from a guy like me, but I assure you I am not being sarcastic. Most of us here have a very strong sex drive, why else would we be here. Some of us it may even seem are constantly horny, and at times that can be pretty frustrating, and many of us may even swear that we're addicted to sex. But do any of us REALLY want to fix this. I seriously doubt it, and as we've already seen, the natural inclination in many of us is to make a joke out of it. But I think it has been clearly illustrated that sex addiction, just like any other form of addiction can be its own little slice of hell and should really be given the respect out deserves.

Thanks @agatha for this humbling experience.

Agatha

@mrmarquis - you are completely correct. It is all about taking control and enjoying your sexuality. As I have written about in other threads I also went through a time when I was unhappy as I was living my life vicariously and towing the line of what I felt was expected. But once I took control properly of my life and sexuality things have not been better and that feeling of freedom and appreciation of my sexuality is amazing. I had to learn and I continue to learn.

@tempest_driver - thank you for your comments. I very much enjoyed your first answer. As a dr I tend to talk in a very matter of fact way so it's good to have a bit of humour.

mrmarquis

Agatha,

Well said. Set the expectations of others aside, do those things which will help you to learn about the capabilities of your body, and exercise it often, whether with a partner or alone. Take that control you mention. Make your body an important part of your daily life. Feel your lips dangling between your thighs as you walk through your day without panties under your dress or skirt. Excercise to learn how to cum over and over until you just can't stand it anymore, learn how to squirt copiously and flood the room. Do your kegel exercises and learn how to grasp a cock with your cunt. Learn how to perform anal, fisting, or whatever else you fantasize about. Each of you is perfectly capable, you simply have to work at it a bit in order to learn. You yourself are your only true key to happiness and fulfillment. It doesn't involve others. Once you have that knowledge and ability for yourself, when you truly love yourself and your body, then you can give some of that love to others. You ladies here are all very special.

Montana

Well, I think when you want to make love with every prospect around, I think you are. When you have a partner who thinks you are or other way round, I think you only have a different level of apetite. When you have a partner and you do it as much as you can, it's fantastic! I had two long time partners who ejoyed sex any time a day when possible and it was FANTASTIC. So what is addiction and what is not. I think it's quite difficult to decide

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