I suspect that you have been the victim of a spammer who also spammed me, but who I was able to decline as a member. Although their messages were removed when their membership was declined, it didn't seem to reset the count as I had the same thing too.
@LabiaLover has now removed a loophole that allowed an applying member to send messages before they had been accepted as full members, so hopefully this won't happen again.
mancladdy said:...but when I try to view them, it says "You do not have any conversations." There's a little '4' next to it in the navigation at the top.
Anyone else having this problem? Been going on for a month or so now. Using Chrome and I've had this open in Opera as well.
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