Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

True, telling the ladies is the best way to get back at him. I've experienced men like this in the past as well. Personally, I'd rather have a man that TELLS me I'm just a bootie call, then a man that claims to be my knight in shining armor, that leaves as soon as the ejaculation takes place. I don't know why, I think it's because that way, you're prepared emotionally.

However, TD is very right in his statement, as soon as a good guy stands up, we should also tell the ladies. They will love you for it. Best thing is to take the man for yourself of course :)

@LabiaLover: I see where you're coming from. I've been in that kind of situation also. The difference: I was the friend who took the man. As you may or may not have understood by now: I'm no angel. I've had my fair share of sexual experiences and encounters already. Anyway...my best friend and I did a threesome once. It wasn't a great success, as the man turned out to be 'not ready for further contact' afterwards. In other words: wham, bam, thank you ma'am.

She and I decided we should try it again. She knew a man, that, according to her 'knew how to handle a lady'. Well, ok, said and done, she arranged an appointment and we went to his house. She introduced me to him and he and I hit it off intstantly. We looked each other in the eyes, and BAM! FIREWORK! We were together, the three of us, that entire evening, and ended up fumbling a bit on his couch. Anyways, because my best friend felt jealous that he was so interested in me that evening (she had a cold sore, plus I was 'new', he'd already been with her, but ok!), she pulled the plug on the whole threesome-thing and started to ignore me. Whatta good man can do, lol!

However, she felt really dissapointed in the both of us, so she ignored us for a few weeks. She said she had no problem with him and I meeting up again. So we did. Without her knowing, as she was already pissed. The Sunday in his bed was worth it, to say the least. He was, however, really honest: he just got out of a long relationship and wasn't interested in me nor her romantically. Just because of him being so honest, and him being so good in bed helped, of course, I met up with him a few times. He was very self confident at the start. He was talking big, about how he would put me 'in my place'. Sure :)) After a few dates, we fucked for eight hours that day already, he gave in: 'Damn, you are good.' Thank you, my boy (he was over nine years my senior :P ), lol!

Anyway, we met up a couple of times. Had sex everytime. At a certain point, he cut off the contact. He'd met a girl he'd fallen in love with, so he said goodbye to me in a beautiful way: I stayed the entire night for the first time. Last time lover, so to say. He and I still have contact briefly about once a month: he hasn't spoken to her in almost a year...... I took the man and my best friend and I are on speaking terms again.

However, we have decided we would never ever let a man get in between of us ever again! If we will ever do a threesome again (which I doubt), we're going to pick a man neither of us has feelings for, that's for sure.