Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

ECC22 said:

In the last few years my life has been pretty crap anyway. No job, no male interest etc... the last two guys I've been with haven't seemed keen on my labia. One said it was fine and differnet wasn't bad but... yet he never actually said he liked it.

Anyway, I do think these issues are partly linked to my depression over the job hunt (16 months...) and the hell that was my last job before that! (A colleague would comment that I wasn't attractive ebnough to represent the brand etc... ended in me leaving after bullying accusations.) My ex (who actually did like my bits) has recently go engaged too so that hasn't helped. I'm happy for him, of course, just a bit lonely. I've only met one man if the past two years I fancied (really liked) and after telling me how much he liked me, then ditched me after a few dates. (Luckily he didn't see my bits so can't attribute that to him!) Anyway, sorry to vent. I am hoping to go see a GP next week to offload stuff elsewhere....

@EC22 -- and herein lies your problem.  I'm don't mean to sound like I'm attacking you, but you have to listen to yourself honey!

No wonder it seems like no enjoys your company -- you don't even enjoy your own company! @};-

Change your perspective, and change your results.  It really is that simple. ;)

See yourself as a beautiful, sexy, engaging woman, and the world will start to perceive you in that way too.

Come here. . .vent to us. . .but you should also take some of the advice being given as well.

I will tell you from experience. . .of the many women I've had sexual experiences with in my life, the majority of them (and I do mean the VAST majority) saw themselves completely differently from how I actually saw them (and not just me, but other men [and some women] as well).

I suspect you're a hard case of the same exact thing.

Anyway. . .my point is. . .if you expect anyone's perception of you to be different, you have to first change your own perception of yourself.

You want men to find your attractive and not "ditch you after a few dates" -- find yourself attractive and interesting, and the men will too.

I'm sure you've seen that woman at a party who doesn't seem to be much different from you, but all the men seem to be captivated by her, because of the energy she puts out, and how much fun she is to be around.

You're problem sounds a lot larger than your labia. . .I mean granted the economic situation isn't that great, and our national economies aren't doing so well, but we have so much to be grateful for in this world, and so much more to look forward to.

Economic situations will come and go. . .but your happiness in the end is what matters most.

Don't let the outside world determine what goes on inside your world.

Your job in this world isn't to change the world around to you to make it how you want it to be -- that's a fool's mission, and an impossible one.

Your job in this world, is to create the world around you that you see fit for yourself.

I'm hardly religious, but this I know for a fact to be true, beyond any reasonable doubts.

If you don't like the results you've gotten insofar, then change the input.

I once heard that the definition of insanity is doing things the same way each time, and honestly expecting different results.

You've tried this approach EC22 -- has it made you feel better??

I think we know the answer to that already.

That said, change how you do things, and how you see yourself, and I can guarantee -- I'd bet my cock on it (and we all know I'd sooner part with my eyes, ears, or hands than my cock), that the results you start to experience will be life transforming, and you'll be wondering why for so long you allowed yourself to fall into that slump of emptiness you're now experiencing.

I believe in you, and I believe in your capability.

So make it happen.  We both know how badly you want change.

Be the change you'd like to see in others.  It all starts with you. :)

Love yourself, and soon others will find themselves in love with you too. :x

It is as certain as the sun rising tomorrow morning.  I guarantee it.

@Kitty77 Thanks sweetness.

You know me...just call 'em how I see 'em. ;)