Sexy Labia: Love Your Sexy Labia

oh! please please don't ever hate your labia... we love them so much ... it has nothing to do with matching your rest of the body... and don't you dare think of surgery... I love 'em shaved/trimmed...

Ok, I can see how a woman may not understand why a man likes bald pussy, we are from Mars afterall, so I will attempt a more thorough explanation.


I have been a fan of women in general, and pussy in particular for literally as long as I can remember. I have always had a deep love of the female form. I saw my first shaven pussy in the late '70s or early '80s when such things were exceedingly rare, and was instantly transfixed at the unobstructed view of the object of my desire. Prior to that, a view of the labia was usually only possible if the pussy was actually held open , and there was this beautiful woman, shaved so I could easily see her amazing clit and labia.


Throughout the '80s, trimming started to become less uncommon, and it was nice to be able to go down on a woman without getting a hairball, but there was usually hair covering the pussy. Occasionally I'd find a woman who shaved, but that still rare. Occasionally I'd hear about them from guys who had been with them and thought their hairless pussy was 'weird' or 'gross' if you can believe that. They always looked at me like I had 2 heads when I told them l liked that.


After I got married in the early '90s I convinced my new bride to shave, she wasn't wild about the idea, but once she saw how hot it made me, and felt how much more sensitive everything was, she was she was hooked. She isn't always shaved, in fact sometimes she even lets the whole thing grow back, but when she does she doesn't like how she looks and hates letting me go down on her until she's had time to prune up the bush. Since most landscaping today involves removing the hair below the clit regardless of what hair is left, I still find it all very sexy. Even the fur covered pussies are still trimmed usually revealing the shape of the pussy below and is still quite hot, but please, be careful if you choose that route. Pubes that are too short can have just the right combination of stiffness and sharpness that they can do terrible, painful things to a penis.


@eva I totally agree about the vegazzeled thing. Isn't that one of the dumbest things ever? Why remove the hair if you're just going to glue something back in its place?


@ecc22, keeping women down? Really? We're asking you to prune your bush, allowing us easier access, both visually, and physically to one of the things that keeps most of us convinced that god exists and wants us to be happy. We're not covering you in a burqa, those women are really being kept down. If anything, I feel that western women are amongst the most liberated people who've ever lived. If you feel like shaving, waxing, piercing, tattooing, branding or even mutilating your pussy is up to you, and at this point, as long as you're doing it for YOU, I'm happy for you. But I think it's pretty low to come here and blame this on some kind of institutional misogyny.

Lol @eva.

@ecc22, I never believed that you said those things with the intention of attacking or upsetting anyone,.
I DID think you didn't realize what you were implying and wanted to open your eyes to the fact that when you label an act or custom as prejudicial, or bigoted, you label the people who engage in or prefer them as prejudiced, or bigoted. That is an accusation I take very seriously.
Also keep in mind that falsely accusing others of prejudice or bigotry is in itself such an act of the highest order.
I agree that whether to shave, or shorten your labia are influenced by the world around you. but so are the fashionability, or acceptability of the clothes you wear, how you wear your hair or makeup, your body weight, even, for some, the friends you keep, you how you make a living. A few of these I'd consider misogynistic, most I would not.
In the end, we just want you to be happy. if you're happy with your current landscaping practices, then that's all that matters, my own preferences be dammed, and neither of us is wrong. If your labia cause you pain, and you've exhausted all the different materials, cuts and fits of under and outer garments. And even, yes allowing your bush to grow to full length, and you still have pain. As much as it kills me to admit it, surgery may be your only option. But only as a last resort, and NEVER to gain the acceptance of another.

In general, I firmly believe that in most cases, you should do the things and make the choices that make you happy. And when such a time comes that you meet someone who is so important to you that you'll make changes or do things you would'nt normally do. for them, those acts should definitely be viewed as a gift.
But someone who would belittle a woman based on the appearance of her labia is not worthy of her. And any man that would refuse a woman for her labia. Is obviously looking for a partner in the wrong gender.

I think we are getting a little too off tack here... ECC's original question was "if people prefer shaven/hairy/trimmed etc?"

In another thread we have established that more than 70% of members here (including ladies) prefer shaved or trimmed as against hairy/bushy mainly due to following two facts:
A. It's easier to go down on... & B. It's easier to keep it clean/hygienic

now method of keeping it trimmed or shaved is another topic by itself as well as trimming fashion.

If you are talking about overall low trimming, take a look at Sofi's trimming over here: https://www.sexylabia.net/discussion/32/dedicated-thread-for-sofi-a#Item_22
very well maintained and groomed.

Although bushy pussies are favorite among a lot of people but I'd have difficulty going down on it ...


and these are kind of turn-off for me... for going down on a woman... although people argue that's what nature intended it to be... then why don't all men keep their facial hairs?

totally unattended bushes like attached images are difficult to handle while pleasuring a woman...